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I have successfully brought up my three children; two sons and a daughter and how I wish that I had had access to your website in the past. I would have realised that some of my experiences were shared by others.
When my eldest son was young I would spank him over his trousers and got very frustrated that despite my sore hand the improvement in his behaviour did not materialise… that is until I was summoned to see his distraught school teacher who complained about him steeling from a classmate and when caught telling the teacher that she could not do a thing to him! When I got home I was still very angry and sent him to his bedroom whilst I tried to calm down. Eventually I went to the room and ordered him to take down his trousers and underpants; for the first time, doubt entered his little face, whilst he reluctantly lowered his trousers he held on to his underpants, I had to pull them down, I then ordered him to bend over my lap. (I loved him dearly but I intended to hurt him so he could see the error of his recent behaviour; hence the removal of his trousers and underpants; but I was worried that this was not "normal" behaviour.) Several well placed spanks later, a chastened son straightened up, crying freely; never before had I made him cry. From that day on until he reached puberty he received his spankings on his bare bottom. Previously I used to spank him over his trousers and those spanking used to happen several times a week but over the next five years there was only relatively rear occasions that a spanking was called for.
My younger son was always spanked on his bare bottom and there have been relatively few occasions when that has been necessary.
However, a word of warning about using implements for punishments. I obtained a rattan, school cane as an ultimate deterrent. The children were aware that I had this cane and if they did something really bad then it could be used but I never intended to use it. However, as boys approach adolescence there comes a time when they push to see how far they can go. After a particular fearful incident involving my eldest son bullying a much younger boy; during our pre punishment discussion my son said that he considered that his behaviour was so bad that he thought that rather than a hand spanking he should receive six strokes of the cane. ( I shook with anxiety as I took the cane from the cupboard; I had never believed he would have pushed me into having to use it.) I turned to find he had lowered his trousers and underpants and had bent over and touched his toes. He had expected "six of the best". The first stoke was quite soft and half hearted but I then managed two quite cutting strokes but witnessing the bright red weals across his bottom I could not bring myself to give him the full six strokes. So my warning is to other parents if you have a cane or a paddle as a deterrent, remember you may have to use it!!!
Somehow with ones daughter one is always reluctant to punish them however, whilst the boys were always punished in the privacy of their own bedroom, she was well aware what happened to them. When she was six I told her she was to be grounded for a week following extremely bad behaviour. She pouted for a while and said that she would sooner be treated like the boys and have a smacking. I told her that I did not want to hurt her and that she would not want a sore bottom, however, she stated that she did not want to stay in for a week. I told her to bend across my lap and when I lifted her skirt I think she began to have second thoughts so I gave her the opportunity to change her mind but she gritted her teeth and shook her head. The boys had always pulled down their own underpants but on this occasion I gently pulled down her knickers. I could only bring myself to give her three hard smacks; unlike the boys she would not cry and after a few tight lipped minutes she pulled up her knickers and asked if she could go out to play as if nothing had happened.
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